I've never seen a couple resolve a fight in my life. I've watched couple after couple be passive with each other and never resolve their issues. Maybe it's a Minnesota thing or maybe I'm just super intrusive in people's lives but I don't know if I've seen conflict resolved very well in my life. My relationship with Jason has taught me so much about how to properly resolve conflict. We've promised each other never to be passive or hold grudges and it's really beautifully frustrating. Why is it frustrating, you ask? Well, because we get frustrated with each other at times but how we resolve it is rather beautiful. I think conflict is good and healthy. How you solve it can either be beautiful or ugly. I never want to have an ugly fight with the one I love. I track that back to my relationship with God. Mostly because I get frustrated with God sometimes but I try not to let that frustration consume me. There are things that I don't like about where I am or what I'm doing and I ask God why they are happening. He knows though and yes, I'm frustrated with Him but I would never doubt Him. He knows all. He knows exactly what I need too and when and never gives me more than I can handle. It's refreshing being able to have a conflict with someone and resolve it. I think the world would be better if people were less passive with each other and more willing to resolve their conflicts.
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